Intensive Emotions In The Wake Of The Storm

During the past week global turbulence elevated at high speed with Hurricane Sandy plundering through Haiti to the U.S. It appears that many times when devastation occurs on such a massive scale a lot of heated human emotions rise to the surface.

While browsing around the web and dwelling into all kinds of news stories and page commentaries focusing around the topic of Hurricane Sandy, I saw how people are mostly in need of recognition and appreciation of their existence.

Now this is just a very simple natural psychological aspect of our human character (but it can be extremely misunderstood and hidden from us because of the turbulent times of our world social situation). These devastating headlines can bring out the best in us and can also bring out the worst. Either way, these conflicting opposites are signs of human emotions seeking attention, contact & connection with others, even if it’s aimed at raising deeply heated arguments ending up in curses and apparently despiteful hatred.

There is a “good Samaritan” which hides inside each and every one of us (but not always the influence of our surrounding environments allows this potential to be exposed) even more so or more less when there is chaos all around. I would like to share with you here an inspiring status I read on the Facebook page of Walk Out Walk On, which could help us to focus on and perhaps receive some positive learning from a devastating situation.

“A reflection from Walk Out Walk On friend, Bev Reeler on these times we are living in: “Do we need chaos to prompt us into our wider selves?”

The Floods and the Flow
– October 30th 2012

Hurricane Sandy hit the East coast of the United States today.
Millions of people witnessed
the combined power of surging wind-blown seas,
spring tides and a cold weather front

sweeping into their streets and their homes
suspending the routine of lives lived in familiar patterns

shops emptied of supplies
transport systems closed, schools closed, businesses closed
even the stock exchange is closed
as millions take shelter
alongside bottles of water and food supplies that protect them from
waiting for the violence of the storm to subside

last week a storm hit the west coast of France, Spain and Portugal
in a fury of wind and water that drowned their houses and cars
57 people were killed

an earthquake shook the seas off the Californian coast raising fears of a tsunami

within a short week
we are confronted with the fragility of the systems that hold us
against the force of this elemental power

the planet has shaken her mantle before,
but things are different now

we have settled in our increasing millions
along the shores of her oceans
the faults of her mantle
at the feet of her growing mountains

and every time she shivers
the structures and systems that have taken centuries build
are wiped out in a few hours

there is something that happens in these moments of chaos
when we are called so starkly into dealing with the present
when we leave our homes with our supplies
shifted out of the normality of our lives
and even the rescue services can’t hold back the damage

It is as if some other part of us wakes up
and we become part of a cooperative, coordinated action
that calls us back to community beings
to lay sand bags along shop fronts
take care of the old lady next door
the kid down the street

will we find a vision that holds us in this chaos
that enables us to stand here in the fire
the floods and the flow?

will we start learning something beyond saving ourselves
and the security of our singular lives?

do we need chaos to prompt us into our wider selves?

are realizations of great significance only born of pain?

in Syria the government forces bombed their capital
killing their own children

and we watch the world on our screens
horrified but detached
until ‘we are the ones’

this week carries great learning………

Image courtesy of Victor Habbick at FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Hurricane Brings People Together

In Times Of Crisis, People Come Together

Hurricane Brings People Together

As Hurricane Sandy descended on the U.S. East Coast, a group of 350.org activists, a global climate campaign, gathered together and unfurled a giant parachute banner with the words “End Climate Silence” to increase awareness of the climate crisis.

If there is something to be learned from all the natural disasters befalling humanity in recent times, it is that natural disasters force people to put their daily routines aside and come together to help each other in the presence of a much larger nature coming down on us.

Here at MutualResponsibility.org, we would like to collect any stories, pictures and/or videos of how this hurricane has brought people together in order to emphasize that one way or another, people will need to come together beyond any seeming differences, and the many inspiring stories of human connection when faced by natural disasters shows us how such connection is possible.

Please add your stories, pictures and/or videos in the comment section below…

Our New ‘We’ Generation

On May 14, 2012, Greater Good Science Center Faculty Director Pr. Dacher Keltner delivered the

commencement address for graduating psychology students at the University of California, Berkeley, asking them to look for the best in themselves and in humanity.

In 1986, Ivan Boesky, of insider trading fame, gave a graduation speech on this very same Berkeley campus of free speech and Nobel laureates. That day he declared, ‘Greed is healthy.’Below are some powerful excerpts from his speech.

A year later in the movie Wall Street, Gordon Gekko famously turned that phrase into, ‘Greed is good.’ This battle cry was part of a pendulum swing seen before in history, one that expressed a certain view of who we are as a species. We are selfish gratification machines. Happiness is found in material pursuits. Other people’s concerns are not our own. Altruism is an illusion. The bad in human nature is stronger than the good.”

Can A System Teaching Self 

Interest Gain At The Expense Of Everyone And Thing Provide Us A Beneficial Society?

That phrase and its accompanying ideology was the mantra of my generation, and scientific studies show it brought us:

  • Rises in loneliness and a loss of friends;
  • A loss of trust in our communities and institutions;
  • Increases in narcissism and decreases in empathy;
  • Spikes in anxiety, to the point where 75 percent of Americans now say they are too stressed;
  • And the recent economic collapse, an insulated one percent, and levels of inequality in the United States that are literally shortening the lives of our citizens.”

Science Reveals The Depth Of Connections Between Humans And The Power Of This Influence That Can Have Intrinsic Effects For Humanity’s Improvement Or Destruction

We can care because we have evolved the capacity to rise above the loud demands of the internal voice of self-interest, and imagine the minds, interests, and concerns of others. This empathic flight is enabled by mirror neurons and large portions of the prefrontal cortex of the brain. It is enabled by our wildly contagious tendencies.

Recent studies of a community in Massachusetts find that all manner of tendencies—dietary habits, anxiety, sadness, hope and happiness, and generosity—spread through neighborhoods as readily as flues and colds. Recent studies find that when we give to a stranger, that stranger goes on to give seven percent more in interactions in which we are no longer present.

We are separated by the boundaries of our skin, we are separate constellations of trillions of cells, but in the reaches of our mind we are connected to one another. Other people’s gains and costs can become our own. And in these acts of empathy, where we see the world through the eyes of others, we come to understand that we all suffer, we all yearn for the happiness of our children. We come to see that we share a common humanity.”

The beginnings of love and caring can manifest when humans begin to connect with what is external from themselves. Our young generation shows great potential to begin building an influential environment towards this direction.

In the words of the poet Percey Shell The great secret of morals is love, or a going out of our own nature, and an identification of ourselves with the beautiful which exists in thought, action, or person, not our own. A man, to be greatly good, must imagine intensely and comprehensively; he must put himself in the place of another and of many others; the pains and pleasures of his species must become his own. The great instrument of moral good is the imagination.”

And you are something more. I hear it in the new questions you ask in the classroom and in your research, and I see it in your actions in the world. You’re using psychological science to humanize the criminal justice system, destigmatize mental illness, create nurturing environments that build stronger connections in the frontal lobes, reduce stress—our biggest killer—in the health care system, make Facebook kinder.

You are Generation We. And I don’t mean the video game console Wii; or “wee” in the British sense of meaning “small”; or “oui” the French word for yes; or “we” like what a two year old says when he has to go to the bathroom.

I mean “we” as in us, we as in this human species, we as in common humanity, we as in all sentient beings.”

Dacher Keltner is currently a Professor of Psychology at U.C. Berkeley and founding faculty director of the Greater Good Science Center and co-editor of the magazine Greater Good, an interdisciplinary center that is translating the new science of happiness and compassion to thousands of educators, practitioners, parents, and concerned citizens. The above excerpts were taken from the article: Generation Wii… or Generation We?

Images courtesy of xedos4 & Maggie Smith at FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Interdependence: A Property Inherent In Nature

The major problems in the world are the result of the difference between how nature works and the way people think.

–Gregory Bateson, English anthropologist, social scientist, linguist, visual anthropologist, semiotician and cyberneticist whose work intersected that of many other fields.

When one tugs at a single thing in nature, he finds it attached to the rest of the world.

–John Muir, naturalist, author, and early advocate of preservation of wilderness in the United States.

 

 




Breaking Down The Borders Between People

To Be Alone, Or Not To Be Alone?

“The individual in his sociological aspect is not the complete organism. He who attempts to live without association with his fellows dies. Nor is the nation the complete organism. If Britain attempted to live without cooperation with other nations, half the population would starve.

Breaking Down The Borders Between PeopleThe completer the cooperation, the greater the vitality; the more imperfect the cooperation, the less the vitality. Now, a body, the various parts of which are so interdependent that without coordination vitality is reduced or death ensues, must be regarded, in so far as the functions in question are concerned, not as a collection of rival organisms, but as one. This is in accord with what we know of the character of living organisms in their conflict with environment.”

If We Learn The Depths Of Our Interdependence And Embed In It The Power Of Cooperation, Could We Steer Towards A Brighter Future?

“The higher the organism, the greater the elaboration and interdependence of its part, the greater the need for coordination. If we take this as the reading of the biological law, the whole thing becomes plain; man’s irresistible drift away from conflict and towards cooperation is but the completer adaptation of the organism (man) to its environment (the planet, wild nature), resulting in a more intense vitality.

Man’s general way of thinking of the totality, i.e. his general world view, is crucial for overall order of the human mind itself. If he thinks of the totality as constituted of independent fragments, then that is how his mind will tend to operate,

but if he can include everything coherently and harmoniously in an overall whole that is undivided, unbroken and without border (for every border is a division or break), then his mind will tend to move in a similar way, and from this will flow an orderly action within the whole.”

—Sir Norman Angell

Image courtesy of Idea go, Mr Lightman & David Castillo Dominici at FreeDigitalPhotos.net

When We All Stand Together, We All Win

One more depending on a prayer
And we all look away
People pretending everywhere
It’s just another day

There’s bullets flying through the air
And they still carry on
We watch it happen over there
And then just turn it off

Chorus:
We must stand together
There’s no giving in
Hand in hand forever
That’s when we all win
That’s, that’s, that’s when we all win

They tell us everything’s alright
And we just go along
How can we fall asleep at night?
When something’s clearly wrong

When we could feed a starving world
With what we throw away
But all we serve are empty words
That always taste the same

Chorus:
We must stand together
There’s no giving in
Hand in hand forever
That’s when we all win
That’s, that’s, that’s when we all win

The right thing to guide us
Is right here, inside us
No one can divide us
When the light is nearly gone
But just like a heartbeat
The drumbeat carries on

And the drumbeat carries on
(Just like a heartbeat)

Chorus:
We must stand together
There’s no giving in
Hand in hand forever
That’s when we all win
That’s, that’s, that’s when we all win”

–Nickelback, “When We Stand Together.” © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.

Connected We Can Do More [Commercial]

Today, values of connection are increasingly entering popular culture, where in this commercial, these values are being used to promote a TV service. This is already a step forward from the past, when individualistic values of “me being better, more popular, stronger, faster, richer than others” would mostly permeate advertisements. Hopefully, this is a step toward the near future when we will promote values of connection themselves, not in order to promote products or services, but to promote the values themselves, so that they would increasingly permeate society and human relationships.

Do You See Yourself As An Ingredient In Other People’s Solutions?

A lot of presuppositions about ideas is that they come to individuals in their head. It’s a very individualistic way of thinking. But actually, most ideas come through their being shared, being developed together often over long periods of time.

So I think the roots of most culture and creativity are to do with interconnectedness, and that process of collaboration and sharing.

Therefore, one way of thinking about it is: Do you see yourself as an ingredient in other people’s solutions? So actually, what you’ve got becomes much more valuable when you can connect it to other things that other people have got.”

–Charles Leadbetter, author of We-think: The Power of Mass Creativity, and former adviser to British Prime Minister Tony Blair